I was surprised to learn when you are exploring spirituality how sexual it is and the many forms of expression it takes. The sexual act is more than just physical contact, it also can involve merging with light beings, shape shifting with just a lover’s touch and traveling with a partner to other dimensions.

There is a downside. When you are sexual with someone and love isn’t involved, this lowers your frequency and you cam find yourself in very dark places that I call the lower astral worlds that are inhabited with people who have fragmented themselves through the misuse of sexual energy; through sexual abuse; and through sexual perversions.

The sexual act is an act of creation; it is transforming and it is act of healing. Many individuals prefer to center the sexual act in the lower chakras and this creates astral attachments and a person can take on their sexual partners’ issues without being aware that it is someone’s issues that has possessed them.

When we have clarity about being multi-dimensional, we will see every act, every thought, every action has multi-dimensional ramifications.

Keep this in mind, you are carrying the energy of everyone you ever had sex with unless you have cleansed yourself of the energy. Because you are carrying other’s sexual energy, this sometimes brings health issues, personal problems, psychic issues, etc.; your partner’s issues are added to your issues.

In the dream state; or meditations, one should attempt to be fully conscious in altered states and “be careful” about sexual involvements. Sometimes that fantasy encounter can be an illusion; or a camouflage for other astral inhabitants to siphon sexual energy. Even the act of masturbation and bringing in a fantasy person, someone’s image, can be invitation to astral entities who will act like parasites. There are entities on the astral plane who are very sexual who can affect your sexual choices once you have given them passageway into your human uric field. In addition, there are fragmented essences (these are denial essences from other people) who get hooked into your energy field and become like parasites. There are people who are possessed by these entities and do not understand why they are doing certain sexual acts and have acquired dark manipulating sexual appetites.

These dark forces feed off perversity. Certain sexual images portrayed in various forms of media; implant images that are like magnets for astral entities; for the discarnate who are still lost on the Earth plane and also for entities who exist in other dimensions who have an addiction to human sexuality.

Sex for sex sake makes you a room for rent. When love isn’t involved, you are inviting predatory dark forces to siphon sexual energy from you. Also, entities will approach you in your dream state, and these entities are shape shifters and will appear to be someone you know; so you must learn to use discernment when you are approached in the dream state. This happens more than people want to admit. Your dream lover may not be the person you think – trust what you feel – not what you see. I always say when in doubt, just don’t open yourself to those situations; and also have clear intentions about what you want to experience in your dream state. Sex is more than just genital centered; it is heart centered and the energy exchange is amazing, you will feel very expansive when it is not localized only in the genital areas.

The sexual act is an act of creation not just only to bring a child forth but this creative energy works multi-dimensionally. Once you have expanded your awareness, you will become aware of the dramas your exploration of sex has created.

We are still a repressive society. We are flippant about having sex without taking responsibility. The responsibility is more than physical, it is mental, it is emotional, it is psychic, it is spiritual and every act you create physically has spiritual implications. We are spiritual beings; more powerful that what we normally believe.

Sex can open doorways, make you a doorway, but the door goes both way. Sex will take you to light places and dark places. You would be greatly disturbed if you saw how much people have fragmented themselves and parts of themselves are in these dark sexual places and people wonder why they feel scattered, disconnected; floating in and out of clarity; have momentary lapse of focus when they are on a sexual hunt – some would say looking for love but sex is fine until I have it; or their attention is drawn to observing sex in its many explorations though they may denounce it vocally to some people; their thoughts are saying something else.

We are made up of our thoughts; thoughts are like magnets; and like attracts like; so we need to police our thoughts; take responsibility for our thoughts. Thought creates reality.

So when you are facing sexual issues and cannot understand “why me” – well, examine your thoughts; and see why you unconsciously continue to feed negative thoughts. Even if the thought is detrimental; it is familiar; to often we stay with familiarity because we get use to it; and fear the unknown. Contrary to what we are told, I do not believe our life is written in stone and we can still be our own authority. But we easily are duped into giving up our sexual power and sexual power serves the Unseen more than we consciously are aware; it is the Unseen; the astral plane inhabitants; and entities in other dimension who are using our sexual energy like a battery source.

So in claiming your own authority; claiming your own sovereignty, reclaiming your mind and believe your mind is divinely protected; will help you to be a fully integrated being especially if you intend to live in an intuitive state; embrace your divine heritage. Intending your focal point is being in an intuitive state will help you to use discernment in your sexual encounters. I’m not saying you have to be monogamous, I would suggest be in a committed relationship until it is no longer suitable. Being in a committed relationship is not saying being married but being a whole being in a relationship with another person who is fully integrated. When we are not fully in body, we are leaving ourselves open to being a housing project for other entities and other disincarnates and the parts of us that we have denied that also can return to us in forms of consciousness we cannot recognize.

Also, the sexual act without love can also create astral entities but I will discuss this further in another article.

If your partner is not ready for experiencing sex as it can truly be; then you might want to reconsider is this the person I can open my heart to. The sex act can be transformational; it can create new realities; you can re-birth your self, you can use the energy to heal yourself, the history of your timeline. Or you can use the energy to destroy.

Sex without love can be disturbing to you and your partner’s psyche and create karma which usually comes much quicker now. Keep this in mind, sex without love, is just another form of gender war; but this war takes place in the mind; and this war in the mind creates its own realities; and these “mind wars” will have to be healed. There is so much about sexuality that we are not told about the sexual act – especially that the orgasm is multi-dimensional. And when you can consciously ride that wave of the orgasm, you will see how vast you are; and realize, you do not have to surrender your power to someone else.

I’ve had experiences which has been labeled tantric or sex magic but for me it always seemed natural and I got lost in the definitions for awhile until I realized some definitions kept me compartmentalized and fragmented into definitions. It is best to let go of definitions especially when you are doing tantric / sex magic and also, life in general if you are experiencing the ascension process. Letting go of definitions will help you to expand and challenge limitations and create a new root system of beliefs. I’ve learned that once you awaken to how powerful sexual energy is; it is an awesome responsibility because you are not only affecting yourself on many levels but others that are around you and it is a calling card for other energies who want to participate in your sexual act as well as use your energy to seed other realities.

Today let’s focus on the word “occupy”; it is used today because of the situation around the world and in our country. Sometimes the answer to questions is in front of us and we don’t sometimes understand the levels involved.

The word “occupy” is bantered around much these days. Has anyone thought, we also need to “occupy” ourselves. So many of us are half way in body. If we were fully in body, we would be aware; have a greater discernment and certain individuals would not be in position of power; media would not be feeding us one-sided news; and we would have a wider perspective; we would not be acting like sheep on our way to a slaughter.

Think about this: who is served when we do not occupy our body. Some find life difficult and are exhausted and have started exiting from their body without considering a spiritual exit plan; we have the ability to “exit” life when we choose; but that is another discussion. Because we have been given “enemies”, we have been given fear in its mean insidious forms; and we have allowed others to be herd drivers of our life; therefore, a lot of people have quietly surrendered and do not occupy their bodies completely which causes physical and mental problems.

Because we are not fully integrated in body, we have given our authority over to others; we have allowed others to homestead our mind. Also, our opinions are based on what we are spoon fed by various media and by mindless talking heads. Yes, everyone has an opinion, but most opinions are knee-jerk reactions and not based on fact; just programmed responses. If you really stopped to think before you speak, you realize that you are repeating what someone else is saying instead of speaking from your heart. We are not taught to speak from our heart but to regurgitate what we our fed by media, by culture, by race, etc., etc. What do you think life would be like if everyone spoke from their heart; and not their mind; and I’m not talking about “the Hollywood version” of what they think a heart felt response should be; I’m referencing to the heart as a symbol of spiritual love; not the shallow version spoonfed version we are told what love should be; – all there is love – ; and when you occupy your body; you realize this; and no one can take you from your center.

Listen to those in the media, are they “fully” there; when you analyze the rhetoric you realize they are attempting to “dumb down America.” Politicians, celebrities, media talking heads have the power we give them. If we turn our backs on them and declare our own sovereignty again, they will have no power over us.

It is easier to close the door and say someone else will deal with. Because we react without understanding the history of events, we have been prodded into belief systems that cannot serve us but serve us up to the few who want to control our economics.

When we occupy ourselves, we know when someone is being deceitful; we know when someone is representing the shadow side of our nature; we know when someone is lying; we know that know one will rescue us but us.

When we occupy ourselves, no one can steer into an illusion of comfort that has no foundation. Those it seems like dark days; it is the fever of transformation and empowerment that will free us. The oldy systems are failing; they are falling; and they do not want to go quietly to their death.

Fear has rear its head in many ways; and the politicians who claim to serve us; feed into the cult of fear for their personal agendas which has nothing to do with the people but how to align their pockets for money and power. Check out their history, check out where their money is coming from, check out their morals; you will see that money, the fear of scarcity, the fear that some “other” is coming for them; and therefore, they want to “occupy” our lives the way they think will serve the few and not the many. We are occupied by others fears and they make us their weapons to deal with the fears. Unknowningly, we are live the agenda of the rich; not the everyday man. When we occupy ourselves, no one can claim our integrity; no one can clam our sovereignty, no one can claim our authority.

It is time to occupy ourselves and get rid of the foreign installations that want to take our rights. We have given away so much of our inherit rights because we forget to love ourselves. When we love ourselves, no one can invade us with rhetroic, no one can tax us with lies and false advertising. When we occupy ourselves, we cannot be numbed into submitting to false doctrines; we welcome diversity and embrace the difference that makes us unique instead of using difference to make us the other, the enemy.

When we occupy ourselves, we are a human race, not a warring division classifying some people as third world, second world, whatever world that serves the agenda of those wielding political power and re-writing history to camouflage their sheninigans.

So when you think of the word “occupy”, it is a wake up call to go home to your self, be full integrated into body, into mind and embrace your divine inheritance so no one can lead you astray, regardless of trinkets they offer you. It is time to stop letting other people sell you a bridge that leads to a lifeless existence.

Occupy yourself, occupy your mind, occupy your life and be better than best, rise above the mundane and that certain politicians, certain systems, certain media would prefer to keep you exiled in. There are many types of ghettos; the one ghetto that is not discussed is the mental ghetto various systems have to keep you as mental slaves.

In addition, what is feared is when people are no longer asking permission to live a full and free life. When we occupy our being, then we are free; we are compassionate; we are forgiving.

When we are not occupying our self, we are at war; we create an “other” to house our fears.

Stop letting people make shadows for you to fight; occupy your life.

Love is a binding force not a manipulating force, not a tragic force. Love has been shaded into many categories so most people want to avoid love because it hurts too much. But most confuse that feeling as love when it is more about manipulating, controlling, enslaving some one into your emotions. Love does not demand, it is compassionate. Most people say I love you but there’s that underlining understanding they have that is it is based on certain conditions. How many times have you heard someone say, if you loved me, you’d do the following. Unfortunately, we are not taught to love unconditionally; but to relate to people with certain conditions. Love does not demand one to be loyal like a trained dog. Love isn’t about competition; it isn’t about being better than; it is not about making demands. Love is unconditionally. People are conditional in their relationships. When was the last time you looked in the mirror and loved yourself?

Your heart is where the soul is. The Soul longs for expression. It is part of greater identity that is seeking to know itself.

When you love someone, you are loving an aspect of you? When you are out of love with someone, you are in denial with a part of yourself. No one can complete you; what we most search for is within us. Yes, we came to physical incarnation to experience physical pleasures, to experience love as we knew it as spirit but we forget and as flesh has limitations so we made love finite. We sacrifice thinking we are being noble, thinking this is a great act of love; it is looking at life from a limited perspective because we forgot how to have a wider view of what life truly is, sometimes the sacrifice is because we are afraid of losing, afraid of a person completing their karma; understanding that events that happen to people are issues of experience that must be healed; and understand what spiritual love instead of physical addiction to sensation.

A pet loves unconditional. They are a symbol of unconditional love.

Yes, we write books, songs, movies about love. But it is love of physical sensation, love of duty; this is not love; it is just satisfying a physical addiction to the five senses. Can you love the dark side of human nature; those who have dibased life to its lowest possibility; can you embrace that person? Can you embrace someone who is not physically appealing, someone who does not have the right skin color, the right gender, the belief system, the financial status, the right friends, the one who is the outcast? Can you love the darkness as equally as you profess to love the light?

So many songs have been written and books and movies saying “love hurts.” The five senses hurt; not love. All there is – is love; anything that separates from love; is anti-life; is a soul addicted to the material world and all its roadside attractions. When you love who you truly are; no one can hurt you; no one can imprison you illusions of hatred or self loating. When you truly love who you are; you are beyond the five senses and you have a greater awareness of the state of being you are in; you realize this human life is only one life that you are experiencing and realize the vast of your soul.

Without love, there is only the state of being like a living dead; always looking to feed off the life of another; and we get addicted to eat another person’s essence when we want to control their feelings, their emotions so that we feel satisifed; alive – not taking the responsibility of our state of being; we want to own, display, ignore, dismember, judge, victimize those we say we love; because it is easier to hurt someone else then to deal with the hurt we have inflicted on ourselves.

When was the last time you looked inside to see the being that is waiting for you; the one who truly loves you; the one knows that you are temporarily addicted to the dance of the shadows?

Love is not governed by manmade rules, man made belief systems; love is all there is; but we think we can own it on our terms and dictate it to others.

We have regulated lover to various territories with boundaries.

There is always tension in duality. The tension will make wings to fly or you will find yourself face down in the mud. We must embrace the duality within to make it a singularity to transcend the distractions of the outer world that keeps us blind and ignorant.

Yet some people like their face in the mud so that they don’t take responsibilities for their feelings; their actions; respect this and understand this is where they are at in their journey to love; and yet; it is still about the levels of perception we encounter as we become more conscious.

When you love someone, they are mirror for you to accept yourself; some part of you is ssearching for love – maybe in all the wrong places and that part needs to be brought back to the light to embrace love with the heart and not with the workings of the hands and mind.

If you are ‘not in love’ then you are not embracing you. If you are in love with someone else and not yourself, you are in denial and that denial will take many forms to bring you back on track sometimes it’s not soon enough and can lead to death. Denial will come as bad relationships, addictions, cult manipulation, illness, suicide, death and attraction to abusive, manipulating personalities.

In addition, no one can tell you who to love. Love is all there is….why do you separate yourself from love and make love something it isn’t. Most people prefer the illusion of love and have relationships that are like prison sentences.

When you wake up to love, love is the force that binds all creation together, than you are no longer “pining away for someone” or addicted to someone’s personality but will have an expanded awareness.

The creation we are experiencing is the result of a greater entity exploring its denial self.

Also, the ones who brings us the darkest moments in our life; are bringing a gift of love. The shadows can be teachers; can be guides to help us awaken what’s inside of us; – love – it will heal, it will protect – it will help us to transcend.

Everyone wants love; not the distractions proclaiming they are symbols of love.

Consider this: No one can complete you. To think they can, you have already lost a part of yourself. We are made in the image of God, Prime Creator, the Source, whatever name you choose to use. All want to be love; but we must love all parts of ourselves if we are to be what we truly are – LOVE.

We should be our own heroes and stop looking up to others. Looking outside ourselves for someone to rescue us; to make us feel complete only negates a part of our self. That negated part becomes its own thought-form that manifest its own reality; dream – depending on how much energy you give to it.

We become addicted to denials that feeds into the denial fragments that become astral parasites that will return to its source and can create destructive behavior. You are the source for these parasites but most people will not recognize this; they will think they are being taunted by voices; by demons. Thought creates reality. Once you deny; judge; you create a thought-form that will seek to become self aware; that you will have to confront at some point during your human incarnations. If it is not resolved in this life; it will be resolved during one of your human incarnations.

Once you understand and accept – thought creates reality; you will see how your root belief systems affects your daily life.

We do not own each other; we experience each other; and having someone as your hero you are giving them power over you.

To admire someone I feel is okay but to put them on a pedestal; you will be disappointed. Eventually the pedestal will crack; that idol will fall because it is worshiping something else and not embracing your innate divine heritage. You will feel your outside attractions, your heroes have something you don’t have. You will think they know more than you. Maybe they do; but that does not make them better. Someone may be more talented; some one may be more attractive than you; but this is all perception. We get caught in rules by mass consensus on what is acceptable and push the others into the shadows so we don’t have to see or deal with them. We easily become outcast when we make others our heroes; because when the heroes are tired of being your hero, they will want their own heroes. No one is better than you. Who you are is an expression, an exploration of the Divine seeking expression in all its forms.

We each have something to contribute to creation. We each are creation. We each live a story that we believe in.

If you feel the need to be rescued you will bring a hero into your life but there is no happy ever after; because you will always feel someone must rescue you if there is a problem. No one can bring you happiness, no one can bring you love; it is in you; you can share but believing someone brings you the things you need; only diminishes you; and then you become addicted to others; because you forgot who you are; you are not living in the now; but always in a fairytale dream, “rescue me” or “Oh, I’m so helpless”; “I am weak, I don’t know how to live my life.”

You will repeat addictive dramas as long as you look for a hero and forget you are your own hero.

Assisting someone, lending a helping hand is great; it does not make the person a hero in your life; it just means you are blessed to be involved with a compassionate person. Use this experience as a teaching; not who you need to be; you have the gift of free will; imagination; there are no limits but what you are influenced to create; remember – thought creates reality; whose thoughts have you allowed to own you; ride you like a broken horse.

Many movies and TV shows are designed to dis-empower an individual. He thinks he needs to look outside himself; he thinks he needs to believe in someone else; and forget that everything that he needs is inside; but we are taught by systems, institutions, religions and the need for acceptance, that someone else must tell us who and what we should be. You are a conglomerate of thoughts – what do you truly want to think about yourself? Do you want to be like a vampire, always looking to drain life from the living because you forgot how to live; and when I say vampire, I am talking about psychic leeches who feed off life-force.

The hero mythology is about the journey you take inward to free yourself of those who want to be controllers; those who want to be the wardens of your thoughts; those who want to recycle your thought process; speak the lines you learned through mind control techniques and media manipulations.

We are individuals. We each are more than what we are told. Looking for a hero, is like worshiping an idol (example: rock stars, TV reality stars, movie stars, athletes). Looking for someone other than yourself not only negates you; but slowly diminishes your capacity.

In some, it will manifest as an illness; in others it will manifest as addictions, it will manifest as emotional issues; it will manifest as a weak voice; as a person who needs that seal of approval from family, friends, lovers and will do anything to achieve it no matter what destructive path they must take.

We are here to love; to be love; to experience love; and we are searching for love; the hero within takes us to love.

In being your own hero, sometimes you feel like you must walk alone; but it is only the perception of being alone. We are in a time period where we have to look within; embrace our divine heritage and no longer give the reins of our life to others. We must learn to love; – all there is love; – and anyone who turns you from that wants to own you.

Being a hero for someone else, makes you a slave to their opinions, their rules. Unknowingly, you live in a trance state, you get lost in technology and forget how to have face time with someone; so busy being addicted to gadgets, they disconnect you from your heart. And then you go looking for the love, the hero, the one who will make you feel alive; because you do not want to accept the fact you have given your allegiance to technology and not your heart.

It is a good thing to be inspired; it is a good thing to be an example for someone but it is better to let them fly on their own and not hold them or make them walk your path. We can teach, we can offer suggestions but the person must walk their own path and we must not judge.

Some people walk a dark path of destruction as a lesson not only for themselves but a teaching for others. You cannot know the light without the darkness and as long we continue to make the darkness an enemy, we will make heroes outside ourselves instead of embracing the love within.

The hero’s journey is your life; embrace your life; embrace your truth and know that love will always guide you. I’m not saying you’ll have a cotton candy type lifestyle; human life is being in school, there are many lessons to learn; many experiences to have so you can evolve into something greater.

Be the hero; be the love that you are destiny to be.

Next time you look for a hero, stop and look in the mirror; there is your hero.

So take a look at your root beliefs, maybe its time to plant a new seed, and cut off the dead roots that keep you in limitations. You are designed to be magnificence. Do not be homeless from your self.